You say yes when every part of you means no.
You apologise before you have done anything wrong.
You measure your worth by how much you give —
and quietly feel resentful that no one seems to notice.
You have probably tried to change this.
You have done the work. You have read the books,
set the intentions, and told yourself this time will be different.
And still — the pattern comes back.



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